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mrs veneering
QUOTE (salinqmind @ Sep 27 2008, 08:01 PM) *
I volunteered at the Sunday social hour at a nursing home, and while it was a lovely place and the residents were all kept busy and relatively happy, let me just say -

by the time I'M ready to go live at an old folk's home, I hope the music they play at the social hour will be updated a few decades beyond Lawrence Welk and The Biggest Hits of the 1940's! A lot of the residents weren't THAT old ... When I go live there, I guess some Elvis would be good, and the Beatles would be soothing and familiar at the sing-along. You're never too old to rock and roll! ... I don't want people visiting me and hearing me complain about my roommate, Ashley, listening to Celine Dion when I'd rather listen to Led Zeppelin, LOL!

I hope I don't become a crazy cat lady and after I pass away whoever handles my estate or whatever also has to find homes for my pets. I think that's so sad. But I can see myself with a whole bunch of furry little friends....



Aha ! you have raised a topic near and dear to my heart . After cooking for old people and being privy to their "entertainment" I have often pondered these two things , food and music and exactly what sort of things are the younguns going to be dishing up for us ? Barring any health issues and teeth issues , I do not want liver and onions for a lark ever! and I insist on some Depeche Mode , Joy Division and AC-DC tunes , and if Lawrence Welk comes into it ever , i am going to throw my liver at them or hit em with my cane!
éprise de flacons
QUOTE (mrs veneering @ Sep 27 2008, 08:12 PM) *
I do not want liver and onions for a lark ever! and I insist on some Depeche Mode , Joy Division and AC-DC tunes , and if Lawrence Welk comes into it ever , i am going to throw my liver at them or hit em with my cane!

So you don't want liver and onions for a lark, but for a weapon?
mrs veneering
QUOTE (éprise de flacons @ Sep 28 2008, 09:32 AM) *
So you don't want liver and onions for a lark, but for a weapon?



I am prepared to use whatever I have to hand in order to protect myself when I am elderly and vulnerable wink.gif
Jicky
I don't want to be a burden to anyone if at all possible, but be a bright spark, and encourage others' lives.
glorious1
I hate to say this but I can spot an old person right away by how they drive. Sometimes I'm shocked and find out it's a young person on a cell phone. BUT...............it's your reaction time and your attitude about driving. PLEASE! PAY ATTENTION..........focus!
I'm extremely judgemental behind the wheel! I admit it.
Cathleen56
QUOTE (glorious1 @ Sep 29 2008, 08:26 PM) *
I hate to say this but I can spot an old person right away by how they drive. Sometimes I'm shocked and find out it's a young person on a cell phone. BUT...............it's your reaction time and your attitude about driving. PLEASE! PAY ATTENTION..........focus!
I'm extremely judgemental behind the wheel! I admit it.


That kind of driving used to be a tell-tale sign of someone who had smoked too much pot -- going 40 mph in the fast lane, etc.

How times have changed! smile.gif
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Catherine Fraser
dementia
merrymusk
QUOTE (ellennyc @ Sep 24 2008, 04:09 PM) *
I attended a conference on Baby Boomers this past summer and one of the speakers talked about ways to keep your brain healthy. He said that doing things that are new and challenging help to keep the brain from getting rusty. Some suggestions: learning a new language, learning to play a musical instrument, learning to write with your non-dominant hand, learning sign language, traveling, games and puzzles, and any creative endeavor (writing, painting, sculpting, whatever). I loved that fact that at least one of the speakers emphasized that all is not doom and gloom re: aging. Other important things: spirituality, nutrition, socialization, and physical exercise.

So to keep your brain healthy and "young" keep trying new stuff throughout your life! Plus it's fun! Doctor's orders! tongue.gif


I am getting older these days as we all are and all of the above is the stuff that counts, If you want to keep living, then keep living. Do not just stand still !!!!

My greatest fears are the fear of losing my eyesight and fear of losing my hearing !
smelka
QUOTE (Cathleen56 @ Oct 1 2008, 11:41 AM) *
That kind of driving used to be a tell-tale sign of someone who had smoked too much pot -- going 40 mph in the fast lane, etc.

How times have changed! smile.gif
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Yes, those pot smoking folks had a favorite saying " Don't trust anyone over thirty!" You don't hear that at all now, I remember when I first heard it I thought - how dumb is that!




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